well I turned all off.. waited.. then took terminals off and ran a bulb between them, then bridged them
then waited..
Maybe I didnt wait long enough after I reconnected.. and of course I cant open drivers window as all windows seem to be off due to eco mode?
I have disconnected again now, and am charging battery (it was 12.5 however)
car is unlocked, windows shut..
looks like a train to work tomorrow for the first time ever

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