So my understanding is that the benefit of the DMF is that it lessens the jolting of the gearbox that, particularly a modern diesel, engine imparts in it.
It's easy to think of an engine running at a constant speed (e.g 700 rpm idling) but the reality is this is in effect an average: the crankshaft accelerates on each power stroke (when one of the four cylinders goes, well "bang" to borrow the Suck-Squeeze-Bang-Blow terminology commonly used to describe the four strokes of each full cycle)
In between the power stroke acceleration, the crankshaft is slowing down again, old to be jerked faster when the next power stroke arrives.
Now this constant acceleration / deceleration / acceleration cycle is more severe in a diesel engine when the short sharp "bang" is more pronounced relative to the decelerating periods (I guess driven by the high compression of a diesel engine, it slows more readily)
The torque pulses are particularly damaging at low revs where they can be close to the resonant frequency of a typical gearbox's internals.
My understanding is the DMF in effect adds mass to the gearbox rotating components and so gives the assembly a lower resonant frequency.
There'th ends the lecture!
Translation:
Don't move the car on the engine's idle speed as, to a small extent, it's shaking the gearbox to bits!
