One small clue perhaps ---- I habitually turn off the stop / start system. After the power loss event, it has reappeared as 'on', meaning to my mind that at least some part of the system considers itself to have been turned off.
I say some part, as the auto wiper function which happened to be on on both occasions remained on. As far as I am aware this function is cancelled when the car is ordinarily turned off at the button, so my event is not a complete power outage.
It has a new, correct battery; there are no known glitches in the charging suystem and all the earthing points around the battery are spotless.
Here's hoping someone has been here before and knows exactly which connector is duff !
Mike.