My '09 2.0HDi is losing water!

I thought I'd been getting a whiff of that 'radiator water' smell over the last couple of weeks, but despite having a good look under the bonnet, I couldn't see anything obvious. I did a 150-mile round trip yesterday, no warning lights (is there a low coolant one?), engine temp gauge normal, heater working normally. Then, this morning, I spotted a wet patch under the front offside corner as the car was parked outside my mum's - I thought it was aircon drain-off. Then I realised I'd not had the aircon on!
I've just been under the bonnet again - top hose stone cold, despite the temp gauge showing 4/5 bars (so not stinking hot as I'd only been to the shop and back), radiator stone cold, heater working fine.
I'm off to my mate's with it in the morning for him to have a look - he fitted the new thermostat for me a while ago. Is pink Total 'Glacelf Auto Supra' the right stuff to use? Mick's Garage lists it as correct, zero info in the handbook, just wondered if anyone knew....if not, I'll call the dealer in the morning to see what's recommended.
Pete
Nocto Diuque Venamur.