Relay is 3, but I suspect water ingress to the connectors - try drying out the connectors / cleaning them with some electrical contact cleaner first BUT - I really wouldn't put your fingers anywhere near it until you have disconnected the battery - especially as you have been running it to temp - the fan can kick in automatically even with the engine off!
Also, if you are going to disconnect for cleaning - make sure you leave the car 15 minutes before disconnecting the battery to ensure the ECUs remember the parameters (also mentioned in the docs).
In case you need to replace it:
Fan (1): Part 1253 T3 (replacement part)
Relay (3): Part 9673028680