Hi Steve,
I'll also reply on Club-XM
I've looked into this in the past with a view to converting an Activa to 2.1TD power. A 2.1TD Activa was available on the continent but never here.
The 2.0TCT and the 2.1TD is a very similar engine and in fact, to all intents and purposes, the 2.0TCT is just a petrol verson of the same thing.
If you were sticking with the manual 'box, it would be a relative doddle mechanically. Going over to an autobox complicates matters a little.
Mechanically, all engine mounts are the same.
Electrically, things are a tad complicated as the looms will not be the same but the 2.1TD pump to ECU loom is stand-alone and the looms to the ancillaries will be the same. The Diesel ECU, assuming the 2.1TD has the excellent EPIC pump, is wired into the main loom in a similar way but you'd have to make some loom changes to accommodate the glow plug controller and the like. The 2.1TD ECU drives most of the instruments and you may run into issues with the tacho and speedo not working correctly.
Fuelling: The TCT will have a pump in-tank. That'll have to go and be replaced by a diesel pick-up. The existing fuel lines should be OK. The diesel exhaust will be needed.
Depending on what autobox you use will depend on what electrical work you need. I'm assuming a 4HP18 and not an electronic AL4. However, you'll ahve to arrange for start inhibit in anything but park and changes to the reversing light wiring. You'll also need to install the auto gear select lever.
The autobox uses different driveshafts but I'll take a guess and say the hubs are the same.
If the donor engine is a manual, then you'll need the flywheel and flex-plate to suit the gearbox.
A lot to do but quite possible, if not time-consuming. A complete donor is almost essential for all the small bits you'll need.
The biggest issue by far though is insurance. It'll be a modified car and they'll sting you hard.
On balance, the best advice has already been given. Look for a good, tidy 2.1 Auto.