I guess I found the reason for the leak
I offered new to old and all looked OK
But when it was time to fit the new I ran into a problem, the matrix pipes just wouldn't line up with the heater valve (1/2" difference in height) and nothing fitted to the car had moved it was all solidly mounted. So a but of brute force and ignorance followed and the two faces where prised over each other with a greased scraper blade and the matrix was eventually pushed home and bolted up, yay. Time to test it so refilled with coolant and checked the joint - it was pi$$ing out, I must have dislodged the two 'O' ring type seals when forcing the two faces together
Day three:-
After a day off to let by bruised and battered back recover a little I set about the job with the vaguest of plans. First make thing a bit more comfortable with a caravan step and a piece of ply to raise my back off the door step. Then I shaved a couple of mm off the fins of the matrix to give a little wiggle room and set to fitting it. This time, with new seals fitted, the difference in height between the two faces was only and 1/4" so the greased blade method was again used to slide them over each other and the scraper easily came free. All bolted up again ( I hate that hidden bolt) and filled with coolant and ............ no leaks
Other BX owners has had less trouble with the same job, they must be thinner and younger, but It's not something I'd be doing again soon, hopefully. Just need to get all the oily Evans coolant off the carpet and driveway now